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Will he come back?

By Maren Tremblay, Fatesight editor · Last updated

Think of him and draw one card. Every tarot card leans yes, no or maybe, and a reversed card pulls that answer back a step. The card also says something about what has happened between you, which is often the more useful part. The same question on the same day draws the same card, so ask once and sit with it.

How to ask

Keep it simple and about one person. Instead of asking whether anyone will ever come back, hold his name in mind and ask this one question. Take a breath first. If you already drew a card today and did not like it, asking again will not help: the draw stays the same all day, so you can spend the time on what the card said.

The cards people look for here

Reading a yes

A yes means the card leans toward reconnection: a message, a meeting or a door that is still open. It does not say what you should do about it. Before you get your hopes up, ask what would be different this time. People often come back to the same relationship they left, so it is worth deciding in advance what you would need to change.

Reading a no or a maybe

A no is rarely the end of the reading. Cards that lean no often speak about what is ending and what comes next for you, so read them as being about your next step, not his. A maybe usually means the answer depends on something not yet settled: a conversation, some time apart or a decision either of you has not made. Maybe is the most common honest answer to this question.

When the question is really about you

People ask this question most in the first weeks after a breakup, when the feeling is loudest. Usually what you want to know is whether you are going to be all right, and most people are. Contact after a breakup tends to be more about loneliness and timing than love, so give it time, and let your friends carry some of the weight.

Will he come back? Questions people ask

Which tarot cards mean an ex is coming back?

The ones most often named are Judgement, the Six of Cups, the Two of Cups and the Four of Wands. All four speak of return or reunion, though the cards around them can change the meaning.

Will my ex come back after no contact?

Tarot shows how things lean today. Many people find no contact is useful either way: if he reaches out, you can hear it clearly, and if he does not, you have had time to recover.

Can I ask this more than once?

You can, but the same question on the same day draws the same card here. Readers generally suggest waiting until something has actually changed before asking again.

Is one card enough for this question?

One card gives a lean and a theme. A fuller spread looks at his side, yours, what is in the way and where it is heading, which is what a full reading is for.

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